By
Abdulrahman M Abu-yaman
Letter to the girl child
Who is a girl child? Is it that
which the dictionary defines as a young
female between the brackets of 0-17? Or
is it what society now describes as
the most vulnerable set of individuals
who are often exposed to
the dangers of child abuse, rape and
molestation? Damn! What a tragedy!
But never to worry, hakuna matata!
For I have come with glad tidings of
good news. Dear girl child, you can
be whatever you want to be. You can
be a queen. Perhaps
like Queen Elizabeth II
whom at a young age received her
coronation to lead her nation
for so many generations. I hope you
roger that information. You can
be a princess. Maybe like Lady Diana
whose character epitomized humanity,
humility, simplicity and gentility despite
her nobility. You can
be a philanthropist, perchance like Oprah
Winfrey, who defied the tragedy of her
childhood of being a victim of abuse
and molestation to becoming a TV
personality and presenter
globally. You can
be a Nobel Prize winner like Malala
Yousafzai who rose like a phoenix
after receiving a bullet, to overcome
her coma and trauma despite the
drama; to be an educational activist
for the girl child. And remember
that you are future mothers, so
don’t forget to emulate the traits and
attributes of Mother Theresa whose
name has become synonymous to
love, care and affection.
Dear girl child, be careful when picking
your role models, because once upon
a time, Hannah Montana was once idolized
and glamourized in the teenage world but
fell from grace to grass when she
revealed her true colour as Miley Cyrus.
Dear girl child, do not oppress one another,
because I once heard the tale of a girl
named Mara, who was a subject of
constant abuse by her “father” and made
a caricature of mockery by her “friend”
Clara.
Dear girl child, do not be afraid to
take responsibilities, because I have a
“black” friend called Sasha who leaves in a
“White” house and was not ashamed to
drop her status as a VIP in order to get
a J-O-B in the USA, I hope that information
is clear to Y-O-U.
Dear girl child, in the quest for the
holy grail, do not play it rough and
tough to get stuff, because that way, you
will never have enough. But rather be careful,
cool, calm and collected. Because you are
a lady; not Gaga!
So dear girl child, be your humble selves and
bear you beautiful names. Am speaking
to all the girl child around the world–
Senorita, Margarita, can you hear me?
Juliet, Elizabeth, can you hear me?
Farida, Rashida, can you hear me?
Ngozi, Yetunde, can you hear me?
Abdulrahman M Abu-yaman
Abdulrahman M Abu-yaman is a Nigerian poet born in the western part of the country (Tin-can island, Lagos), occasionally visiting the south (Warri) despite being from the north where he currently lives (Minna). He majored in Economics at IBB University, Lapai, Niger State, loves to draw in pencil monochrome. His works have appeared in Kalahari Reviews, Elsielsy blog and forthcoming in Lunaris Review and Black Boy Review. You can follow him on Twitter @abuu_yaman.
It is a remarkable lyric...terrific imagination ...as history strengthens what he says.